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The craving mind

Craving mind - will of a person. Will is a primary energetic movement. The thirst for life is the ambition of every living thing. Is to breathe and inhale air and put energy into the body. The will to eat and the will to reproduce to continue life. Will is influenced by proper mental and emotional work. Without this effort, will become a craving. After realizing the desire you experience a pleasure. When the experience ends, there is a fear that you will not experience the pleasure again. This is where the will rises again. Finally, repeating the process of increasing one's will for satisfaction will turn desire into craving. To satisfy the craving you will need to invest more and more of your energy in it. This will prevent you from getting this energy for more beneficial purposes for you and your environment How does this wish become something that is the opposite of striving for life?  When does ambition become craving?  What happens when craving drives you instead of you runnin

The wonderful myth of attachment theory - crystal clear mind

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The wonderful story of attachment theory. The theory deals with the relationship between the growing child in his early years. Relationship with the parent or adult caring for him. The child's built relationship to the social world around him and the development of his self-perception. He is born with a built-in need in his mind to interact with an adult. This attachment experience will determine the child's basic worldview in his development into a mature person. They will influence the formation of deep emotional relationships and relationships in general. Worldviews are what will define an adult's expectations of himself and his style of relationships with the world. Opposite the theory is the theory of temperament which places responsibility on the biological system of man. The wonderful myth of attachment theory We will ask three questions: What types of attachment does the adult have? What is the temperament theory? The wonderful myth of attachment theory - is it just

How to End Confusion achievement with doing

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How to End Confusing achievement with doing? It is easy to get confused between aspiration and achievement. The achievement is to reach a certain point in the sequence. You want to learn the guitar and you want to get married. Thee want to be more confident and you want to work in a job that will make you more satisfied. Doing is playing the guitar, getting married, being assertive, and working at a job that makes you happy. You can control the plot, but not the result. You can play the guitar, but you won't become a rock star. Thou can get married, but you may not be happy. You may behave assertively, but you will not receive a response accordingly. The achievement outcome also depends on the elements of luck and opportunity. You cannot control the outcome of your actions. Therefore, what is useful is to focus on doing yourself the actions you do, your behavior, and the decisions you make. Confusing achievement with doing Confusing what to do and wanting to do Above all, There are